Recently I got evicted by family; my grandma. I offered to pay rent and did for a year stupid I know she needed someone I love her. but no matter how much it wasnt about the money id been buying all the groceries and gas+electric bill she wouldn’t let me pay any of the mortgage the whole time she kept social security and a 16h a week job because “she likes to stay active. I it would be cheaper to pay gas all utilities and mortgage then rent. She wants to sell and get an apartment. She’s kind of in the spectrum so doesn’t have the empathy to relalize she’s putting me on the street. And she’s too sheltered and think she’s right to not realize she will not only pay more get scammed by anybody and their mothers I would forward housing repair estimates and quotes for services and she talks to my dad he would usually get her to tell her what she’s doing and she will listen to him. I’m an idiot child in her eyes when I could of been livinging with my GF but honestly that’s a limited horizon approaching there’s no future in that. giving up a 3 percent apr on a 20 year left mortgage is so good damn dumb. She can pay her housing with her social my parentd would gladly help with the rest. She needs to keep that equity not grab 6 or 8% or rent get get raised every year first years rent will be more than rent. She knows this. I want to take over the bills as soon as I get a job. Everything and get a lawyer that she can stay until she does unless I stop paying. I havent been working even though I’ve been trying to find a job for a few months when I saw this coming but I thought it was enought time then she springs this on me I guess she wants me gone. I never made messes she can live on social security if she would have let me pay rent I could have cut back on my personal expenses like phone Internet and datenights and could have paid everything including rent and she would get social security so she she could have no bills and money coming in. But I got no warning I couldn’t even do that. I could have had a job I never thought she would spring this on me and leave me with no place to live. I paid gas electric and food once your served eviction you get 10 days till she sherrif kicked you out. A proxy server is suppose to give you a notice you have a month minus weekends plus ten days to the sheriff comes but I couldn’t get a job I’ve always been able to get a job within a month. This just got sprung in me. I’ve got $80 in bit coin eating ramen and living in a open garage animals can get in getting bit up at night at least I have a got water kettle and microwave a and a sympathetic neighbor to use wifi. My question is I know this is naive but do I have any options. I’m going to food kitchens and free meals I need advice to stay clean enough to interview I can laundromat and maybe get in to get some hanger bags if she’s nice but every but is 3 dollars But things like shampoo for garage showers, trash bags to keep clean clothes clean and dirty clothes from getting bugs in them plus laundry mat I have maybe a months expenses i’ve dropped every bill Except the essentials I’m hoping I get a job in the next two weeks or I’m screwed I applied for smha Which is our section 8 and as many housing programs as possible in our county but they still make you pay 50 in administrative and 50 rent a month and pay your own utilities which is great. But that takes a while to get into. How would you get buy living off not just Bitcoin but anyway Bitcoin is all I have. I know how not to get scammed by crypto dms I need life advice. If this isnt allowed I don’t want to post against sub rules I’m not begging either. could I just ask what you would do in my situation. I used my life savings that grew a lot to pay for multiple years and she would thank me for all my help and was always very nice we never fought I stayed upstairs by my own. once I had the talk about my financial situation she went behind my back and even snatched the proxy server notice. I got a letter saying I didn’t show up to court I have 10 days that’s gone. The shelter is full but they are closed 7am to 9pm. I don’t know what to do. I’m living in an open animal inhabited garage. I’ll admit I’m too old to be in this situation but she needed someone to look after here by dad doesn’t care about me her much either he will call her once a week never visit. I’m an adult that wanted my sizable life savings on someone who nobody else will.
submitted by /u/evictedandalone
[link] [comments]